![]() Spider webs are often seen as delicate, but they are extremely durable. They are quite effective and efficient no matter how small or big they are made! Spiders are dedicated to web weaving. If their web is torn apart, they will work diligently to weave and mend a stronger and more efficient one. Relationships are often perceived as very delicate too, requiring extra effort to maintain. However, relationships can also be something that can provide security and be long lasting despite the many trials they endure. Building an effective and lasting relationship web is a necessity for us for several reasons. Our society is defined by a web of relationships, which requires us all to work and contribute our share in order to achieve a common goal. Having a relationship that is good, where cooperation and respect are manifested, can make our society work better. In this way each member works for the good of the whole and towards achieving a common goal. This can only be attained with effective and efficient relationships. You have multiple relationships that you form with your parent, spouse, child, friend, co-worker, employer, neighbor, etc. You form and maintain some type of relationship status on a regular basis. You naturally will want to make sure that these are positive relationships. We often get so entangled in the weave of our daily life that we begin to lose focus on the necessities of these social relationships. Understanding each other’s feelings and positions creates an effective and efficient relationship. The easiest method to understand what is important to another person; is to just ask them what they want and listen to what they actually have to say. They will realize that it is not all about you and will feel the importance you are giving to them. You will gain the insight of their perspective and this can bring a much deeper understanding into your relationship. Effective and efficient relationships do require that you are allowed to openly express your feelings and positions on all matters pertinent to your relationships too. If you assume that the other person understands your needs and will give you what you need without asking for it, you will definitely be disappointed. Most people cannot read minds! The wonder of a web of relationships is the bigger the web, the more it seems to attract! You can never have too many effective, efficient relationships!
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Cynthia A NahinI live in Southwest Michigan and am excited at being able to create and share this blog with you. I hope you return often as I will provide you with many creative concepts that I have learned and put to practice successfully to achieve my end set goals! Believe me, you can do it, too! Blog Archives
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