![]() Why don't you have what you really want? You day dream about how happy you will be when 'that day arrives'. Then, you nullify your dreams by telling yourself that 'I am not lucky enough' or 'I am just not ready, but someday...' Someday? Really? Not with that attitude and self-talk. Honestly, you may not realize it but you are constantly supplanting limiting beliefs into your subconscious mind with these statements. These are like roadblocks to your path to success! Many news reports are stating how lucky one fellow is going to be at the Marine's Ball this year. I can guarantee you that the Marine Sgt. escorting Mila Kunis to the Marine's Ball did not limit himself in asking Ms. Kunis to be his date. He had a goal and attained it, not by luck, but by ACTION! Most people in this world attain their dreams, desires, and success by action, not by chance! You can successfully achieve your dreams one set goal at a time, you just have to believe in yourself. I know you have heard this before, and it is difficult to change how you have talked to yourself. Some of you have learned this behavior from your parents, family, friends, and environment. That can make it more challenging for you to break the habit, but not impossible! The power is in understanding you are your own unique human being! You know what YOU really want. Then, focus on the reality of attaining it. If it is a big goal, you need to begin chunking it down into smaller, easier tasks, that you can focus on. When that negative self-talk rears its head, turn it around to positively apply it. Example: 'I just don't have the talent or skills!' vs 'I need to find out how to attain the skills!' That's a set task, that is achievable and positive! Often many people waste so much of their time waiting for 'the right' time, moment, or feeling. If you have a goal, the key is to take ACTION, today! Even if it is just starting with baby steps towards it! Every step closer will boost your self-esteem and confidence in yourself, making your next steps easier and easier!
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Cynthia A NahinI live in Southwest Michigan and am excited at being able to create and share this blog with you. I hope you return often as I will provide you with many creative concepts that I have learned and put to practice successfully to achieve my end set goals! Believe me, you can do it, too! Blog Archives
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