![]() A key area in forming an effective relationship is for you to confront differences directly. Differences can be quite interesting. For example during a conversation, you may observe that each person has two different perspectives on the same subject. This is often the case. Everyone has their own unique views. You need to effectively listen and don’t pre-judge. This is important if couples or even good friends are to understand each other. Work together towards a win-win solution. There is no reason for your defenses to go up due to differing views. Certainly, by acknowledging that your relationship is important, you will attempt to understand each other’s viewpoint. Should that fail, the old adage never fails- Agree to Disagree. At least, each of you knows there was a serious attempt made to understand and that is comforting. Respect is a key factor in relationships. In order to create a more effective relationship, you should treat each other with respect. You can show respect just by listening and by trying to sincerely understand their viewpoint. The opposite of respect is to quickly form a judgment based on unfounded facts and prejudice. Respect is the very foundation for a great relationship. This also means respecting yourself. Be true to yourself, and sincere. If not, you will feel guilty later or worse resent the other person for your own decision to misrepresent yourself. Informal discussions bring out issues and concerns comfortably. Developing an atmosphere where one can express their feelings honestly when they need to. When couples fail to express whatever is on their mind or their feelings, it can get in the way of building an effective relationship. Couples should be aware and avoid some of the following pitfalls: · stereotyping or mistrust. · blaming the other person for a strained relationship. · excluding the other's feelings when focusing on a task. · no clear and defined objectives. · roles and expectations of each partner in a relationship are not made clear. · assume that you can change the other person to your ideal. · insincerely changing to impress another instead of being honest. Relationships are important to everyone, addressing issues and problems right away is a must to further improve the relationship. Every relationship will be as unique as you are, so to be the most effective in relationships, know yourself, FIRST!
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3/10/2013 09:50:19 pm
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